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	<title>Dreaming in DC</title>
	
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	<description>The greatest achievements were at first and for a time dreams. The oak sleeps in the acorn.</description>
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		<title>Trick the Kids to Go to Sleep at a Reasonable Time</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 12:39:01 +0000</pubDate>
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I read in a time management book and on ParentCenter that said that instead of yelling and screaming at your kids that you are late or GO TO SLEEP, cushion that into your schedule.
Therefore, I switched my son&#8217;s clock to be an hour later, and I am now sending them to bed at 7:30.  [...]]]></description>
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<p>I read in a time management book and on ParentCenter that said that instead of yelling and screaming at your kids that you are late or <span class="caps">GO TO SLEEP</span>, cushion that into your schedule.</p>
<p>Therefore, I switched my son&#8217;s clock to be an hour later, and I am now sending them to bed at 7:30.  All their &#8220;I Wants&#8221; and attempts to now go to bed are cushioned in and they are falling asleep at 8:30 pm instead of 10:00 p.m., like they were before.</p>
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		<title>No More Laptops or Work in My Bedroom</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 01:21:08 +0000</pubDate>
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I am trying to kick this insomnia.  Therefore, I have decided that I am no longer going to bring my laptop into my bedroom.  Additionally, I am only going to use my bedroom for relaxing and sleeping.  No more work or late-night television.
Let&#8217;s hope this helps relieve me of my insomnia.

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<p>I am trying to kick this insomnia.  Therefore, I have decided that I am no longer going to bring my laptop into my bedroom.  Additionally, I am only going to use my bedroom for relaxing and sleeping.  No more work or late-night television.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s hope this helps relieve me of my insomnia.</p>
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		<title>Road Rage is Starting to Get On My Nerves</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2009 21:47:46 +0000</pubDate>
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Ever since I started driving, I&#8217;ve had ridiculous road rage.  I yell at stupid drivers, slow drivers, aggressive drivers, and the list keeps growing.  I realized today that I need to quit this behavior because it&#8217;s not doing anything but making my blood pressure escalate.
I&#8217;ve tried listening to music, audiobooks, meditating, but nothing [...]]]></description>
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<p>Ever since I started driving, I&#8217;ve had ridiculous road rage.  I yell at stupid drivers, slow drivers, aggressive drivers, and the list keeps growing.  I realized today that I need to quit this behavior because it&#8217;s not doing anything but making my blood pressure escalate.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve tried listening to music, audiobooks, meditating, but nothing works.  I know the real solution is self control, so I need to start practicing that cause I am starting to realize how annoying it is.  Maybe the first step is self awareness.</p>
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		<title>Being Called a Motherf*er and a B*tch on a Saturday Morning Sucks</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Jan 2009 15:10:38 +0000</pubDate>
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I had an encounter with my sister’s stupid boyfriend.  As always, she calls with her issues with him.  I would think she would have learned not to call us when she is having her 10,000 problem with him, but she did.  I was actually on his side, but I guess that didn’t [...]]]></description>
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<p>I had an encounter with my sister’s stupid boyfriend.  As always, she calls with her issues with him.  I would think she would have learned not to call us when she is having her 10,000 problem with him, but she did.  I was actually on his side, but I guess that didn’t matter.  He starts yelling that he doesn’t care what a “stupid motherf***er has to say.”</p>
<p>She asks who is he talking about, and his response? Me.</p>
<p>I was shocked that a man who is almost 50 and supposedly is “educated” would disrespect a woman in that way.  I told her to put him on speaker.  I responded that a “ghetto motherf***er who couldn’t even pass the bar and is 50 doesn’t have the right to speak to me like that.”</p>
<p>He started saying my family is worthless and that I was a bitch.  I told him that he tries to act like he is better than my ex-brother-in-law, but he has more class than him.  He said all of this in front of my niece and nephew.  </p>
<p>I told my sister to never call me about this idiot again, and I hung up. I called my mom and told her.  She is right.  Words and words, and he is a nobody so who cares what he says.</p>
<p>I was ready to punch something, but I have calmed down. This idiot means nothing to me, so why give him any credit whatsoever.  I need to learn to not think twice about such idiots.</p></div>
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		<title>Bonnet Nuit, Sayonara, Do Svidanja</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Jan 2009 06:23:55 +0000</pubDate>
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When I was at the Apple store getting a replacement power adapter, I got the Berlitz Beginning French CD.  Additionally, I subscribed to all these French podcasts.  While I was on there, I also subscribed to Japanese and Russian podcasts.  After that, I decided to join French, Russian, and Japanese Meetups.
Well Bonnet [...]]]></description>
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<p>When I was at the Apple store getting a replacement power adapter, I got the Berlitz Beginning French CD.  Additionally, I subscribed to all these French podcasts.  While I was on there, I also subscribed to Japanese and Russian podcasts.  After that, I decided to join French, Russian, and Japanese Meetups.</p>
<p>Well Bonnet Nuit, Sayonara, Do Svidanja</p>
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		<title>Dreams With No Fear</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 2009 15:47:47 +0000</pubDate>
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This year I plan on taking roads never taken without any fear.
Happy New Years and Dreaming Everyone!

    

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<p>This year I plan on taking roads never taken without any fear.</p>
<p>Happy New Years and Dreaming Everyone!</p>
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		<title>Target is Where My Money Goes</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2008 07:39:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dcfemella</dc:creator>
		
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I spend way too much money in Target. Therefore, I am only going to go once a month, if that.

See more progress on: only go to Target once a month

    

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<p>I spend way too much money in Target. Therefore, I am only going to go once a month, if that.</p>
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		<title>Freelance Writing Business Cards</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2008 07:37:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dcfemella</dc:creator>
		
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I am ready to create new ones.  I want to get the transparent kind, but they are way too expensive.  However, they would be unique and would get notice in the DC business world because everyone is so conservative here.  Whichever one I decide to get, I will get it done before [...]]]></description>
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<p>I am ready to create new ones.  I want to get the transparent kind, but they are way too expensive.  However, they would be unique and would get notice in the DC business world because everyone is so conservative here.  Whichever one I decide to get, I will get it done before January is over.</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2008 07:32:29 +0000</pubDate>
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This month I finally began applying for creative-writing type of jobs.  It worked! I got a recurring gig writing dating articles.  I was flabbergasted.  I have finally stopped fearing rejection.  If I get rejected, I get rejected.
Today, I applied to be a Writer for an environmental parenting blog.  I will [...]]]></description>
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<p>This month I finally began applying for creative-writing type of jobs.  It worked! I got a recurring gig writing dating articles.  I was flabbergasted.  I have finally stopped fearing rejection.  If I get rejected, I get rejected.</p>
<p>Today, I applied to be a Writer for an environmental parenting blog.  I will find out in January if I got it or not.  Even if I didn&#8217;t, I at least tried.</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2008 07:26:11 +0000</pubDate>
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The amount of time I spend reading feeds and responding to email is outstanding.  It&#8217;s time that I learn to control this obsession.  I haven&#8217;t thought of how to start, so I will just write that I am ready to begin.

See more progress on: keep timewasters in check

    

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<p>The amount of time I spend reading feeds and responding to email is outstanding.  It&#8217;s time that I learn to control this obsession.  I haven&#8217;t thought of how to start, so I will just write that I am ready to begin.</p>
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