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Camping Tips I Learned While Camping

13 October, 2009 | dcfemella | Comments

“A breath of fresh air with wonderful friends”

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How I did it: My friend R. contacted me about going camping. It’s one of the things that I planned on doing this year, so I excitedly agreed. I was finally able to use the camping equipment that I bought with my ex the year before. After dropping the kids off, I changed, got some camping essentials, and was on my way. I thought it would only take me one hour, but it took two hours. It started getting really dark, and I was alone, so it was pretty scary. Next time, I am definitely going to try to ride with someone. The drive was a pretty one when I got into the Shenandoah Park, so I have no complaints.

I was the last to arrive, but it didn’t matter. My friends had already started the fun times, so I was able to instantly enjoy myself. We began a game that I had never heard of called “Never Have I Ever.” You are suppose to say things you have never done, and if someone had done it, he/she had to drink. After awhile of playing it, we started laughing hysterically and being really loud, so the guy next to us came over to tell us that there his kids were sleeping. We all felt bad, so we went to sleep.

My friends had brought one tent that was reminiscent of the tent in Harry Potter. It was huge, and all six of us fit. I didn’t sleep very well because it was super windy, and I felt like the tent was going to blow away. The next day, I got up and R. was already cooking away. I already know that girl is going to be an amazing mother. She made us bagels and sausages. It started to rain a little, but all of us were ready to go hiking, so we went.

The hike was gorgeous. We saw two waterfalls and were in awe with all the breathtaking views from the colorful leaves. My friends are like paparazzi, so they were snapping away. The guys had to be the adventurous ones and go inside one of the waterfalls. The girls just watched them wincing every time one of them looked as though they were ready to slip. It was time to head back. It was torturous. It was just a huge hill for an hour. My friend N. and I looked at each other and said “Screw this! We are going to do this.” We had to stop a few times to ensure that the group was with us, and we kept going. We finally reached the top and did the Rocky victory dance.

Our friends R. and R., who organized this, went all out with the food. Yummy burgers, trail mix, salmon, wild rice, potatoes, smores, and chips. I know who I want to be with if I have to go camping again. 

The funniest thing that happened was with bugs (of course!). There were these little stick bugs that kept jumping on our food and us. R. wanted to check out this food in a bag that she got from the camping store, so I made it. It was a Chicken Teriyaki stew, and I was the only one who tried it. When I was eating it, one of those stick bugs jumped on my plate. I screamed and without thinking flung the bowl towards N.’s roommate. After making sure he was ok, they started making fun of me. I really need to work on how afraid I am of bugs.

I headed home in a very good mood that I was able to go camping before it got too cold. I had a marvelous time, and I plan on taking the kids next spring.

Lessons & tips:

  1. If a bug scares you, throw your hot food in the other direction where other people are sitting
  2. Don’t forget that if you are hiking downhill, you will have to go back up eventually
  3. Make the best out of any situation
  4. Don’t forget to thank the host/ess
  5. Have quiet voices when there are kids camping near you
  6. Bring a pad so you can sleep better
  7. Bring an MP3 player for those insane hikes
  8. Bring a stack of Uno cards
  9. Take tons of pictures
  10. Smile

Resources:

  1. Fun, Non-Drama-Filled Friends
  2. Sleeping Bag
  3. Off Bug Spray
  4. Rain Poncho
  5. Open Mind

It took me 6 months.

It made me Good Times


VA Wine Festival Was A Great Way to Reconnect With Friends

20 September, 2009 | dcfemella | Comments

Yesterday I went to the VA Wine Festival with one of my best friends S. I hadn’t been to one in a long time, so I was pretty excited to go again. Before the event, I printed out the tickets for us to go. If you ever have the chance to buy tickets before an event, do it. The lines to buy tickets was ridiculous, and we were able to bypass them by pre-purchasing our tickets.

We had some good, bad, and ugly wines. Our favorites was from Villa Appalaccia called “Allegra.” It was this sparkling white wine with a crisp taste. We couldn’t get enough of it. We then loved “Noche” from Cooper Vineyards. It is a dessert wine with the smell and taste of chocolate. After that, we headed to Virginia Mountain Vineyards and tasted this wine called “Holiday Spice.” It reminded me of the holidays. Of course, I bought one of each. I also bought and extra of the “Holiday Spice” for my parents.

During the festival, I got reacquainted with someone from my past. This can be a good or a bad thing. This time it was good. He is still as cool and fun as ever. S. even liked him, so I was happy with that. After tasting way too many wines, S. and I ate crab-cake sandwiches. I don’t know if it was because I was hungry or not, but they were damn good. They also had Lobster Mac & Cheese, but we didn’t eat any of it. Overall, I had a wonderful time. S. and I talked about our lives, I saw my old friend, and I got some tasty wines.

I hope that I am able to hang out with S. more because I hate how I never get to see my friends anymore.  Let’s hope that I get to see her and my old friend more than a few times a year.

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Finding a Summer Camp for Kids is a Big Deal

25 March, 2009 | dcfemella | Comments

Before the sunset, the kids play in the sand

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I am currently trying to figure out what I’m going to do with the kids in the summer. It’s strange to me now that I am in the school-aged phase that it’s a huge deal what summer camps you choose for you kids. Every mother I speak to always adds “And what summer camps are you putting your children in?”

I know that Cebastian is going to an overnight camp for a week, and Isabelle might go to the one at her school. We might go to Italy (or definitely, a public beach). However, after that, i am pretty much clueless. The problem lies on how much these camps want. The cheapest camp is $340 a week. Let’s do the math:

$340 * 2 (kids) * 4 (weeks) = $2,720 a month

This is close to $3000 because this doesn’t include supplies and activity fees they love to add to this number. Also, my ex isn’t the type to really help. I can just see that conversation:

“Eric, I probably need a little extra for the kids’ summer camps.”

“Ummm…I give you child support, so sorry, take it from there.”

My coworker says that our neighborhood has a half-day summer camp that has tennis, pool, and walking on nature trails. However, I am pretty uncomfortable paying lifeguards to watch my kids until I get home. They are watching everyone else, so what happens if they miss my kid? I don’t know…maybe I am paranoid. I think if all else fails, the kids will go to Isabelle’s school, which is Cebstian’s old school.

I want my children to have a fun summer, but do I really have to pay this money for them to have fun? These summer camps know that working parents need to place their kids in something, so they are upping that price like crazy to kind of screw us. I really don’t know what people are living paycheck-to-paycheck do.

For school-aged parents out there, what are you doing with the kids this summer?

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Who Should Pay on Dates? Woman or Man?

14 March, 2009 | dcfemella | Comments

I am extremely old fashioned.  It’s the way I have always been, and I think it has to do with my parents raising us to think that men should open doors, let us get out of an elevator first, and pay on outings. 

The question is when should a woman finally pay for a date? 

My thoughts are that a woman should never pay for a date until she is in a committed relationship with a guy.  If she starts going dutch on every outing, will this make the guy not dote on her like he would a woman who doesn’t do this? 

But what if you know that the guy currently doesn’t have the tons of spending money because he has it tied in business endeavors? Should you pay for the occasional date?  For that manner, should I just be dating a woman? 

I have no idea what the right answer is.  Date two, three, four, five, and six…

As the self-proclaimed Research Queen, I began research on what “dating experts” have said should be the answer to this question.  It seems like they say that the first date should be on the guy.  However, after that, a woman should only pay if she initiates the date.  If the guy is struggling with money, then offer to go on cheap dates or cook for him.

Maybe I am too old fashioned.  Maybe I am used to guys who always pick up the tabs.  What if the right guy comes along?  Should I allow this to let me ruin the chance to be with a quality guy who is emotionally available and loves to be around me?  No, I think that it’s time I start changing my viewpoint and pick up the tab once in awhile.  Who knows!  He might be worth it.


 

 

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Giving a Cat a Bath is Rough!

8 December, 2008 | dcfemella | Comments

Man, I thought that giving a dog a bath was rough.  A cat is 100 times worse!  This is compared to a huge German Shepherd.  I shampooed him twice with this yummy lavender shampoo that I bought at PetSmart.  It was a challenge but with two kids, I was able to do it.

I was impressed.  I stayed super late at work, and I was worried the house was going to be destroyed.  Everything was perfect, and he was totally lounging on the carpet.  He uses his litter box and doesn’t even attempt to poop or pee on the carpet.  Anyone who knows me knows that I HATE bodily waste.  Ick!  

The kids and I are now watching “A Charlie Brown Christmas!” while Haji dries himself.  I still feel crappy.  My back and hips hurt, and my stomach feels queasy.  I don’t think I am going to work tomorrow because I was suffering today.  I hope to feel better tomorrow.

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