DCFemella

I wanted to let everyone know on how I’m progressing in my experiment on eating like a poor person.  Yesterday I spent $15 on eggs, oatmeal, soups, and snacks for the kids and me.  This is all that I have spent this month on groceries plus $12 that I spent last Wednesday when we arrived way too late to the house to cook.  Usually be the middle of the month, I have already spent $400 on food.  So far, I have over $350 to donate to charity.  I can’t believe how much money I haven’t spent. 

I want to thank Tina for posting that wonderful post that encouraged me to start this experiment.  She has also showed me that I have been frivolously overspending on food.  I love trying out different cuisines and wines, and so that really cuts into my pockets. I also have the habit of eating out and drinking at lounges where the drinks are an average of $12 a piece.  This has also helped with how I see other parts of my budget categories.  This Christmas, I have been super smart about my shopping.  I told my family that I am only shopping for the children, and the adults need to do a Secret Santa, where we can’t spend more than $50.  Some people were reluctant, but they finally caved.

There are so many people in the country who are being laid off, unemployed, or are barely living paycheck to paycheck.  If I can help children in some way, I will feel like I have done something wonderful these holidays.  My children are getting way too much for Christmas from their grandparents, family members, and probably even me.  I want to bring some happiness to children who are not able to have the luxuries that my children are offered.  I have donated tons of clothes, electronics, and house furnishings to different organizations.  I want to volunteer with the children at an event, so they can start helping others and appreciate their life.  

If you are able to help, help.  It’s better to give a present than to receive one.