Asking a Guy Out for the First Time
Posted by dcfemella | Posted in romance, self | Posted on 18-05-2010
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I am the shyest person you will ever meet. If I think a guy is cute, and I’m interested, I can’t even look him in the eyes. I divert my attention when I notice him looking back, and I can’t help but turn a crimson red. I sometimes wish that I was like some of my friends who can look the guy in the eyes and flash a flirty smile. Now, I am here having a huge crush on my contractor, and I am freaking out because I know that he won’t ask me out because I’m his client. It is up to me to do the asking.
Being the huge nerd that I am, the first thing I did was run a google search on “How to ask a guy out” and “What do guys think of women who do the asking.” It seems like men don’t usually frown upon it nowadays, so there is nothing hindering me from doing it. I asked a couple of friends, and they said, “Girl, go for it.” The problem is that being that I am immensely shy, can I really do it? I am trying to smile at him more and look him in the eyes. However, I think the giggling is getting a bit much, but I can’t help myself.
One thing that is true is that the worst he can say is no. It will suck to hear that, but I’m not going to combust into flames, so does it really matter? No, it doesn’t. Therefore, I am going to do it. For the first time in my life, I am going to ask a guy out. I am going to do one thing though….wait til he finishes the job.
Photo Credit: Somewhere over the Rainbow, originally uploaded by neloqua.



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