Weekend Recap: Thanksgiving Food Drive, Small Twitter Meetup, and Girls’ Night Out

22 November, 2009 | dcfemella | Comments

Thanksgiving Food Drive

My friend R. told me about a food drive that a local church was having for Thanksgiving.  I quickly volunteered.  The kids and I woke up at six in the morning, got ready, and headed there.  As a thank you for coming with me, we headed to Chick-Fil-A to have their chicken minis (NOM!).

Thanksgiving Food Drive

Around eight, we arrived at the church.  There was a huge line of people waiting for the food drive to begin.  The kids and I went to a side door to begin volunteering.  W each got our own name tag, and the coordinator told us to go to one of the tables filled with food.  I have never done a food drive, and I was shocked at the amount of food there was.  It seemed like grocery stores donated food to the church, which I thought was wonderful.  I even noticed an IT consulting company was volunteering as well.

Thanksgiving Food Drive

The kids and I were in charge of the Instant Meal/International table (don’t know how the two are similar) and were told our job.  We were suppose to restock the table as soon as a person made a decision of the item he/she was going to put in the grocery bags.  Luckily we got the table that had stairs behind us, so the kids could sit.  A few moments later, the food drive began.

Thanksgiving Food Drive

I was impressed on how organized it was.  The head coordinator was very efficient in any issues that arose.  A volunteer would help an individual/family go to each table, which were theme based, and help them pick the amounts of items they could get.  If a person had a question, the person assisting them or one of the people in charge of the tables would help them with any questions.

Thanksgiving Food Drive

At first, the kids didn’t understand the point of all of it, until they started seeing the smiles on people’s faces.  The quickly began helping me restock.  There were times that I didn’t do anything but stand there awaiting the next person to come because they kids quickly helped replace any items.

Thanksgiving Food Drive

They also helped me send messages back and forth.  I was really proud of them. At the end, they didn’t want to leave.  I had to push them out of the door.  Cebastian later said, “Mommy, that was fun!”

Thanksgiving Food Drive

Cebastian had these extra thoughts:

After that, we headed to my parents’ house.  My 11-year old cousin was there, so the kids played with her until their father came to pick them up.  I said a few minutes later, “I miss them.”

My cousin said, “Already?!”

My mother is doing some consulting work for the Library of Congress, so she asked if I could run some Thanksgiving errands for her. My cousin and I got in the car and headed to Sam’s Club to get the apple pie and pumpkin pie that the kids love.  I also picked up some sparkling wine for them as well.  We took some time to go to Border’s and roam around.  I was a little disappointed in their sales section this time around, so we went home empty-handed.

After talking to my mom for awhile, I noticed the time.  I had to start getting ready for dinner with Chaesco and Choodomir. By that time, I had only slept four hours, and I hadn’t taken a nap, so I was dead tired.  However, I got up, went home, and got ready to go to dinner and then out with my friends.

It was nice meeting Chaesco.  He is wicked smart, so I loved hearing him speak about the things he was doing at AnimeUSA.  We went to Jaleo and ate Spanish tapas.  I could have eaten more, but everyone else had stopped eating, so I decided not to.  Choodomir and I left Chaesco and headed to the Science Club to meet my friends.

Girls' Night Out

They arrived and we had fun.  Well, that is until I started crashing.  I could barely keep awake, so I decided that it was time to head home.

Girls' Night Out

Overall, it was a wonderful weekend doing wonderful things and being with wonderful people.


Help Someone in Need This Holiday Season

20 November, 2009 | dcfemella | Comments
The holiday season is upon us. Thanksgiving starts next week, and it’s the time that you begin thinking about all the people and things you are thankful for. With that, I always think about helping people who are struggling at the moment.  Everyone goes through rough patches in their lives.  It’s always nice to help those that are when you are doing pretty good.
If you have the time or things around the house that you no longer use, donate your time or items to help people this holiday season. This Saturday I am going to volunteer two hours of my time for a Thanksgiving food drive. It will be a great way to help those who need a little touch of Thanksgiving.  I also want my children to get into the spirit of volunteering as well.
Many people now do not appreciate the things in their lives.  They go through lives thinking that everything is owed to them.  When you help others, that type of attitude usually disappears.

If you are able to, help someone in need, even if it’s just cooking someone a dish.

Photo Detail: NALC food drive, originally uploaded by HDC Photography.


Who Would I Watch on Earth If I Passed Away

18 November, 2009 | dcfemella | Comments
The Lovely Bones by Alice Sebold

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I just finished reading The Lovely Bones by Alice Sebold. For those who don’t know, it’s being made into a movie coming out next month, and it stars Rachel Weisz and Mark Wahlberg. It is directed by Peter Jackson. The story is about a 14-year old girl named Susie Salmon, who is brutalized and killed by a local man. She is now in heaven looking down on Earth at the people left to deal after her death. When I saw the trailer, I decided to read the book after hearing a few people exclaim that they weren’t sure how this was going to be made into a movie.

The first few pages are enough to suck you in. By then, I was captivated and wanted to read more. Sebold has the art of describing people, things, and places. She draws you into the scene, and you feel like you are there in the 1970’s with Susie looking at the people on Earth. What I love about the story is that it shows how it isn’t the person who died or the actual death that with the prolonging effects of it. It shows how a family and community have to cope with Susie’s death. The thing that helps is how 3-dimensional the characters are. You don’t see them as perfect or flawed, but as people. It’s something that is sometimes lacking in some stories, but this one is definitely not one of them.

The only two things that I didn’t care for in the book is the lack of dialogue skill and the ending. I feel like the book ending lacked and was a little longer than it should have been. Also, dialogue is not her skill. If it weren’t for her descriptions, I would feel like the characters were lacking. I’m reading another book, “The Sugar Queen” right now and the art of dialgoue in that book emphasizes how lacking it is in this one.

Overall, the book is good, and I think many people would enjoy it.

The book got me thinking about life and death.  Also, who I would watch if I were in heaven and could see everyone in the world.

I would watch my family, especially my children. I would watch them to see what kind of people they were turning out to be.  If they had a problem, I would be there to hold their hand, even if they didn’t know that I was there.  Every moment of happiness, sadness, anger, and confusion that they experienced, I would want to be there with them.

I would also want to see my friends and past loves.  I would hope that they would find happiness.

Great book that makes you experience life and hug your children a little tighter.

Photo Detail: The Lovely Bones, originally uploaded by celi_divine.

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Bipolar Friend Request Behavior

16 November, 2009 | dcfemella | Comments

People baffle me. There are times that I wonder if I have been propelled into a different dimension, or dreamt how things played out. It’s more apparent when you add social networking sites to the mix.

A person and you become friends, and everything is fine. All of a sudden, he/she will remove you from his/her friends list, and you are confused by that action, but then you decide that there is no point of getting upset over it. Few months will pass, and you get a friend request from that person trying to re-add you. When that usually happens, I add the person, and just leave it at that. However, this time, I decided to just play ask about what in the world that was about. Still no response.

When someone removes you without an explanation, I feel like it’s a passive-aggressive type of action that allows that person to say, “I really don’t want to deal with you” in a indirect way. Or they are too afraid to face this person, so they’d rather do it this way, so they don’t have to deal with the awkward conversation that usually happens.

If you don’t want to be friends with someone, just say it!

“I’m not feeling you.”

“I just don’t feel we click anymore.”

“You did X and X, so I don’t want to be friends with you anymore.”

The person at the receiving end might be a little annoyed or upset, but he/she will probably have more respect you than anything else.

Photo Detail: day 1. confused, originally uploaded by SILLY MOO.!.


Brother and Sister Bond is Becoming Stronger

12 November, 2009 | dcfemella | Comments

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My mother always taught my sisters and me that family comes first, and that we always have each other’s back. It’s something that I want to instill in my children as well. For awhile, I was worried. They constantly fought and kept yelling to one another:

“I hate him/her!”

“She/he is NOT my brother/sister!”

“Mommy, I wish I had a little brother/big sister!”

I thought that the day would never come that these two kids would get along. I was wrong.

Since Isabelle started going to school with Cebastian, their relationship has changed.

1. They look out for one another
2. They play together
3. They hold conversations together

When we went to dinner with my sister, we were both impressed on the conversation they were having. We couldn’t believe that these two children who used to bicker all the time were actually holding a conversation that was pretty interesting. I realized that I had nothing to worry about. These kids are going to be close, just like their ages. They were practically raised like twins.  When Cebastian was not even two, Isabelle was born. Therefore, they don’t remember life without the other.

I remember right after I had Isabelle, Cebastian was brought into the room.

“Look, that’s your sister.”

He pretended she didn’t exist, and it remained that way for a year. If she was on the floor, he walked over her. If I tried to get him to come near her, he wouldn’t look at her. It wasn’t until she started walking and moving around that he realized that it wasn’t just him anymore.

I’m glad that they are getting along and actually thinking about one another. I put them into a program called “Kidnesthetics” that teaches them to think outside the box, and I’ve noticed they have gotten closer cause of that as well. Next week, they start “Odyssey of the Mind,” so they will have another activity to do together.

While doing homework and waiting for the quiche to heat up, Isabelle began crying.

“I want a bunk bed like Cebastian.”

“Well, you are six, so maybe we’ll check them out.”

She smiled and looked at Cebastian, who was also smiling.

“I worry cause you still like sneaking into my bed, so what if you fall down the bed stairs?”

“Isabelle, what time do you think you will head to mommy’s room?” Cebastian excitedly asked.

“Three,” she answered.

“I’ll come get you, help you down the stairs, and then go back to my room, ok?”

“Ok.”

I smiled.

I love my sisters with all of my heart, and I can’t imagine life without them. I’m glad that my mother forced us to get along and be as close as we are now. I’m happy that my children are heading in that direction.