Doing Laundry is a Form of Torture

Posted by dcfemella | Posted in self | Posted on 13-04-2010

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Recently I saw “The Jetsons Movie.” I remember watching how they pressed a button, and they would clean the entire house. If I had to choose which button I could have that was in the cartoon, I would say one that would get all my laundry washed, dried, folded, and put away.

I don’t know what mental block I have with it, but I can never get it done quickly. It takes me a week to do one load of it. There have been times that I have been tempted to find a service that would do it for me. Then, I come to my senses and realize that would be pretty silly.

It doesn’t make sense. I am pretty organized with everything else in my life, except this. I’ve even tried to reward myself. “Ok, if I get this laundry done in a day, I will go get some ice cream.”

Never works. Procrastination always sets in, and I do everything but the laundry. Since I got back from Panama, I have loads of it that I have washed, folded, but haven’t put away. I’ve already told myself that I will put them away tonight. I’m really hoping that I follow through.

If you want to torture me, put me in a room full of clothes that need to be washed.  I really need to break out of feeling so negative towards laundry.

What are some ways that you get your laundry done? Any tips for me?

Running Cherry Blossom Ten Miler Tomorrow

Posted by dcfemella | Posted in health | Posted on 10-04-2010

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Tomorrow I run the Cherry Blossom Ten Miler. I was one of the lucky few to have gotten a token to be able to participate in the run. I’m apprehensive though. I haven’t been training.

Don’t get me wrong, I really tried to train. However, I never got the chance to due to unfortunate events. I wasn’t going to do it, but I said that I wanted to do it in honor of my sister, who was one of the best female runners in the Air Force, so I’m doing it.

Its like life. There are things that you are afraid to do due to lack of preparation, like give a speech, have a baby, prepare for any other experience, but you still do it.

Yes, I know that Ill probably be walking the entire time, but at least I still did it and finished.

Making Life Decisions After a Death

Posted by dcfemella | Posted in self | Posted on 09-04-2010

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There are some decisions that will change your entire life.  These will usually affect others as well.  Since my sister passed away, I have been in thinking mode.  Thinking about what I really want out of life, what will give the children the best future possible, and who I want to be part of this new life.  Therefore, I decided to make some pretty drastic decisions.

The company I’ve been working at for the past three years informed me that they are losing contracts, so they will not be able to retain me after June.  I was happy because I had already decided to quit in June, so it worked out.  I decided to focus on my freelance writing business.  I was pretty successful the first time.  The only issue was that my friend and I were not the best business partners because we had different work ethics, so the business bombed.  It’s one of the reasons that I have been so afraid to try again.

In Napoleon Hill’s “Think and Grow Rich,”  he says that the people who have made a difference in this world usually started after a tragedy.  He’s right. I realize now that my sister died that I will have regrets if I didn’t attempt to go solo.  If I fail, then at least I can say that I tried.  I am currently in the process of setting everything up, so I can become a Freelance Consultant.  I also want to work on my passion, which is biking and running.  Therefore, I am going to start BikeLife.TV.  This will be in the future.  Another thing that I want to do is work on getting people to be more aware about a special cause.  I will reveal this after I have given it more thought.

On my trip to Panama, I also realize another thing.  I really have been raising the kids 100% alone.  The kids’ father only sees them two days out of the month.  He refuses to get the kids in Fairfax, but every time I turn around, he is going to a concert or hanging out in DC.  The entire time we were in Panama, he didn’t even bother to call or email.  It’s something that is typical because I can go a month without hearing from him.  The day before we left, I had to text him so he could call his before they boarded the plane.

What is the point of continuing to make a man be a father when in actuality, he wasn’t cut out for it? In the past, I kept him around due to not having enough money to raise the kids on my own.  I would have to pay $1800 a month on child care, so I could work, and I made too much to get any support from the government.  It’s something that he always held over my head.  Now, I am ready for him to take his money and leave.  I hope he accepts that he was not meant to be a father, and skips out.

I’ve let fear overrun me for too long.  It’s time that I live my life.  I want my sister to be proud of me, so I need to start now.

Photo Credit: Choice Maker Mind Map Game Board Blank, originally uploaded by mindmapinspiration.

Missing Panama

Posted by dcfemella | Posted in family | Posted on 07-04-2010

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Spring Eliminates Boredom

Posted by dcfemella | Posted in family | Posted on 05-04-2010

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While Isabelle is in tutoring, I am reading the DC Family magazines, Washington Parent and Washington Family. They are both discussing the spring and summer activities iin the area. One thing you quickly realize is that there is no reason to be bored in DC when spring comes around.

There are tons of kid festivals, family day in various museums, and summer camps are right around the corner. It helps that the weather is absolutely perfect. While I flip the pages, I am taking mental notes on the things I want to do this spring.

The opening of flea markets, farmer’s markets, camping, biking, running, hiking, and eating ice cream. Yes, you can do this in the winter, but you don’t need to bundle up.

Spring, I love you.