Stop Censoring Everything From Your Kids
Posted by dcfemella | Posted in children, rant | Posted on 05-08-2009
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America has become so politically correct. Everything and anything has to be screened tons of times to ensure that it won’t offend anyone. One of the worst things that is happening now is how people are trying to put children in a bubble. I was looking at my feeds when I saw this article, “How to Choose a Movie for a Child.” It goes on to say that some Disney movies are inappropriate for children, and then the writer starts talking about how anime is way too adult for children. This really annoyed me because it’s trying to shelter children to a point that anything is “too much for them to handle.” I want to tell them about all those kids who I met in my life whose parents tried to protect them way too much. What usually happened? When they went to college and were away from their parents, they started partying, sleeping around, and drinking like crazy.
You can’t shelter your kids, people!
I came from Panama where we grew up watching anime and not caring about the movie rating. My parents would tell me to close my eyes during sex scenes, and that was the only censorship we had. Since I was young, my family would give me sips of their drinks. While all the kids here were talking about how cool they were for going out and getting drunk, I barely drank. While all of them were sneaking in rated “R” movies and sometimes copying the stupidities they saw, I had more of a “Meh” attitude.
This is the way I am raising my children. I am not censoring everything that they come across. If it’s something that is disturbing to them, like the recent death of a 21-year old kid riding his motorcycle in my parents’ neighborhood, we sit down and talk about it until they are satisfied. We live in the world that is full of crazy things, and our job is to ensure that our kids have the right tools to handle them. We won’t be able to do this if we shield them from the realities of the world.








Very well said. As a parents, we have to remember that we won't always be around to help our kids make the “right” decisions. Our job is to teach them how to think for themselves and not blindly follow others.
There are some things that aren't appropriate but keeping the lines of communication open is most important so that they understand why. When they are confronted with making decision when I'm not around, I just hope that I've given them the tools they need to stay safe.
It is our job, as parents, to prepare them for the rest of their lives. I feel that my parents not censoring my entire life prepared me to not fall into doing bad things. While other people my age were into drugs, drinking, and doing crazy things (like hitting their parents), I never even thought about it. One of the reasons why was all the movies, documentaries, and talk shows I saw where they discussed those kinds of things. I knew that I never wanted to be one of those people I was watching.
I am so with you. My parents wouldn't even let us watch the Simpsons! We had to sneak around to watch it. Thank goodness for the “last channel” button on the remote…
Hahahhaa…it's like when you are at work and you are surfing the net and when the boss comes around, you quickly put up another screen.
After working with kids for 10 years, I understand that the more they are exposed to, the better adjusted they will be. I stand by that. I do.
Being someone who worked with kids for ten years, I think you know more than anyone that this is true. =D
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