DCFemella

As vain as people are, they never think they are worth a crap either. That does not help.

Vain and feel they deserve the worst describes a lot of people. Or it could be that they are vain and think that everyone wants them, and when that one person comes along who isn't obsessed with him/her, and is a bitch, it intrigues him/her?

You have it right. Men love a challenge. I'm not a bitch but I REFUSE to take crap from anyone, especially men I m dating. I expect complete respect or what's the use in being with them? When I stand up and voice that I don't like something, they alwys tell me that's a turn on. Every one of them have said the same thing. Some say, "I love when you're bitchy and wont' tke my s---. To me it's not about being bitchy but they have gone out with enough submissive woman that I come across that way. So I wonder if it's bitchiness or the attraction is a woman who doesn't need them unless they treat her right? I don't know. I don't even think THEY know the answer.

You were saying your friend is beautiful. Did you know that most men are attracted to "beautiful," but beautiful isn't what keeps them at these women's side? That's why it has been proven that most women that men cheat with are most often than not, not as attractive as the women they are cheating on. It has been said by experts on the subject, that it's the physical attraction that gets them initially, HOWEVER, it's the way the woman makes them feel and not taking any crap, that keeps them. Hmmm...something to think about? lol